# Game of Friendship Paradox

# Game of Friendship Paradox

### The paradox is that your friends probably have more friends than you. We take a closer look at this head-scratcher and create some data visualization using code.

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Join For FreeIn the introduction of my course next week, I will (briefly) mention networks, and I wanted to provide some illustration of the Friendship Paradox. On network of thrones (discussed in Beveridge and Shan (2016)), there is a dataset with the network of characters in Game of Thrones. The word “friend” might be abusive here, but let’s continue to call connected nodes “friends.” The friendship paradox states that:

People, on average, have fewer friends than their friends.

This was discussed in Feld (1991) for instance, or Zuckerman & Jost (2001). Let’s try to see what it means here. First, let us get a copy of the dataset:

```
download.file("https://www.macalester.edu/~abeverid/data/stormofswords.csv","got.csv")
GoT=read.csv("got.csv")
library(networkD3)
simpleNetwork(GoT[,1:2])
```

Because it is difficult for me to incorporate some d3.js scripts in the post, I will illustrate this with a more basic graph:

Consider a vertex v ∈V in the undirected graph G=(V,E) (with classical graph notations), and let d(v) denote the number of edges touching it (i.e., v has d(v) friends). The average number of friends of a random person in the graph is:

The average number of friends that a typical friend has is:

But:

Thus:

Note that this can be related to the variance decomposition:

i.e.:

(Jensen inequality). But let us get back to our network. The list of nodes is:

```
M=(rbind(as.matrix(GoT[,1:2]),as.matrix(GoT[,2:1])))
nodes=unique(M[,1])
```

And we each of them, we can get the list of friends, and the number of friends:

```
friends = function(x) as.character(M[which(M[,1]==x),2])
nb_friends = Vectorize(function(x) length(friends(x)))
```

As well as the number of friends our friends have, and the average number of friends.

```
friends_of_friends = function(y) (Vectorize(function(x) length(friends(x)))(friends(y)))
nb_friends_of_friends = Vectorize(function(x) mean(friends_of_friends(x)))
```

We can look at the density of the number of friends, for a random node.

```
Nb = nb_friends(nodes)
Nb2 = nb_friends_of_friends(nodes)
hist(Nb,breaks=0:40,col=rgb(1,0,0,.2),border="white",probability = TRUE)
hist(Nb2,breaks=0:40,col=rgb(0,0,1,.2),border="white",probability = TRUE,add=TRUE)
lines(density(Nb),col="red",lwd=2)
lines(density(Nb2),col="blue",lwd=2)
```

And we can also compute the averages, just to check:

```
mean(Nb)
[1] 6.579439
mean(Nb2)
[1] 13.94243
```

So, indeed, people on average have fewer friends than their friends.

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