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Game of Friendship Paradox

The paradox is that your friends probably have more friends than you. We take a closer look at this head-scratcher and create some data visualization using code.

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In the introduction of my course next week, I will (briefly) mention networks, and I wanted to provide some illustration of the Friendship Paradox. On network of thrones (discussed in Beveridge and Shan (2016)), there is a dataset with the network of characters in Game of Thrones. The word “friend” might be abusive here, but let’s continue to call connected nodes “friends.” The friendship paradox states that:

People, on average, have fewer friends than their friends.

This was discussed in Feld (1991) for instance, or Zuckerman & Jost (2001). Let’s try to see what it means here. First, let us get a copy of the dataset:


Because it is difficult for me to incorporate some d3.js scripts in the post, I will illustrate this with a more basic graph: 

Consider a vertex V in the undirected graph G=(V,E(with classical graph notations), and let d(v) denote the number of edges touching it (i.e., v has d(v) friends). The average number of friends of a random person in the graph is:

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The average number of friends that a typical friend has is:

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Note that this can be related to the variance decomposition:

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(Jensen inequality). But let us get back to our network. The list of nodes is:


And we each of them, we can get the list of friends, and the number of friends:

friends = function(x) as.character(M[which(M[,1]==x),2])
nb_friends = Vectorize(function(x) length(friends(x)))

As well as the number of friends our friends have, and the average number of friends.

friends_of_friends = function(y) (Vectorize(function(x) length(friends(x)))(friends(y)))
nb_friends_of_friends = Vectorize(function(x) mean(friends_of_friends(x)))

We can look at the density of the number of friends, for a random node.

Nb  = nb_friends(nodes)
Nb2 = nb_friends_of_friends(nodes)
hist(Nb,breaks=0:40,col=rgb(1,0,0,.2),border="white",probability = TRUE)
hist(Nb2,breaks=0:40,col=rgb(0,0,1,.2),border="white",probability = TRUE,add=TRUE)

And we can also compute the averages, just to check:

[1] 6.579439
[1] 13.94243

So, indeed, people on average have fewer friends than their friends.

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