One on One Meetings
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Join For FreeAbout 15 years ago, I started a simple practice with my fellow
co-workers and employees. Every so often, we'd meet to discuss stuff and
things. Nothing too formal, just a touch-point to make sure we were
staying connected. I called the sessions "touch-point meetings". Over
time, I made adjustments to the format of the meeting as various
structures proved more or less valuable.
At some point, I came to know these touch-points by another name. People
were calling them "one on one" meetings. I discovered they were a
common practice for many managers. Shortly thereafter, I came to learn
that aside from the name "one on one" these meetings had little in
common with one another from company to company, department to
department, and manager to manager.
One on One is about them, not you
As a manager, you've plenty of opportunity to provide employees feedback, direction, and information. The one on one session, above all else, should be a format for employees to speak to you. This is about their needs, their concerns, and their personal growth. Your job is to ask productive open-ended questions, to listen, and to follow-up constructively.It may take several sessions before an employee opens up to you. Allow them to move at their own pace.
This is not a status report
Don't ask for updates on projects. Gently redirect the employee away from project status updates. These should be happening in another venue. An employee unfamiliar with a healthy 1:1 may tend to interpret these as a check-in on personal performance.Make One on Ones a top priority
Schedule these sessions as a regular event. I suggest you pre-schedule them in six month blocks. This sends the message you intend to do these regularly and ensures the time is blocked off on your schedules. Do your absolute best to keep these commitments. It is easy to allow crucial deadlines and other seemingly more urgent priorities to get in the way of One on One sessions. But ultimately nothing is more important than ensuring your employee's growth. If you must move a One on One, try to keep it on the same day. Use video conferencing to keep the commitments when you are away.
Meeting Format
- Open
- 5 minutes
- Review action items from prior 1:1
- Are we doing what we agreed to?
- Are we getting results?
- Primary discussion
- 15 minutes
- Your topic of choice
- Updates / Feedback
- Requests for support
- Action planning
- Manager input
- 5 minutes
- Manager items to share
- Updates / Feedback
- Requests for support
- Action planning
- Close
- 5 minutes
- Review new action items
- What are we planning to do?
- How will we measure outcomes?
- Close meeting
Set Expectations
Help by Asking Open-Ended Questions
Potential Questions
- How are you doing?
- Are you working on something interesting?
- Do you like what you're doing?
- How are you getting along with your team mates?
- What is one or two things that would make your life better here?
- How can I better serve you?
- As your manager, what could I be doing better?
- If we could address one issue on your work-life right now, what would you want it to be?
- What would you say is the best part of working here?
- What is one thing you'd like to see improved on your team?
- What is one thing you'd like to see improved in your department?
- What is one thing you'd like to see improved at your company?
- Tell me about some of the challenges you’ve faced this week.
- Is there anything I can do to help with your work?
- What are you most concerned about?
- What’s the biggest opportunity we’re missing out on?
- What are we not doing that we should be doing?
- Are you happy working here?
- What suggestions do you have?
- What have you learned this past week?
Follow-Up
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